How To Flirt With A Girl Over Text

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Flirting over a text can be more fun because you’re more confident when you’re not face-to-face. There are times where I say things over text that I couldn’t imagine saying to someone I didn’t know very well. 
However, texting can also make it difficult to flirt because there’s the absence of facial expressions and body language – something that is the biggest part of flirting in person. So with those important factors out of the equation, you have a lot more to make up for. Just as there are certain things you have to do differently to successfully flirt with a girl over text, there are also some things you should avoid. 
Here’s your guide on how to flirt with a girl over text.
Don’t be too serious

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When you’re texting, it’s really hard to understand what’s a joke and what’s serious because of the lack of tone of voice and facial expressions. This means that you have to keep things light and simple – otherwise, a girl might confuse them for being serious and that’s not very flirtatious. 
Don’t make references she might not understand
It might seem like a good idea to flirt and make cute references, but if she doesn’t know where they’re coming from, it won’t come across as flirting. So if you want to refer, first ask if she’s seen the movie, video, or heard the song, and then transition into it. You’ll avoid a lot of awkward confusion this way.
Emojis are a girl’s favorite way of flirting
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If you can use emojis, then start studying up on how to use them well because girls LOVE using emojis to flirt. Not only will you have to shoot her some wink faces if you’re making a funny joke, but you’ll have to get creative with them and you’ll see how much better she responds. Emojis also help take the guesswork out of the context of your message.
Be subtle
A really good lesson in learning how to flirt with a girl over text is to be subtle about how you do it. This allows her to come back at you with a flirty text or ignore the whole thing completely. Not only will it keep you looking cool and nonchalant, but she’ll also sit thereafter the conversation wondering about what you meant – always a good thing.

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